Tuesday, August 14, 2012

Back in the hospital

What a rollercoaster surrogacy is.  I am sure I am preaching to the choir in most instances.

This morning we received our 10 week scan.  The baby is measuring at 10 weeks (right on track) and the heart rate is normal (150), but there is more subchorionic bleeding.  We've been through this last month and it cleared up quickly.  This time round has me a bit more worried because the bleed covers 3/4 of the sac, while last time it was only adjacent to the sac.  It just sounds more serious.  Dr. Google is no help.

Our surrogate is back in the hospital and on bed rest, so we should hopefully hear some better news the day after tomorrow (tomorrow is Independence Day in India).  In the meantime, I am trying to focus on the positive things to be thankful for:

1.  The baby's growth is on track
2.  These bleeds often clear up
3.  The surrogate isn't in pain.
4.  She is receiving excellent care

I need to lay off of the caffeine and google.  Brent, as usual, is as cool as a cucumber (I am thankful for that, too).  

Having said all of that, the awesome Bernadette has finally made it home after nearly 5 months in India, so maybe I should stop my complaining.  :)

Positive thoughts!

Charlie & Brent

14 comments:

  1. Surrogacy is a rollercoaster but Bernadette teach us to have faith in the future. A lot of good energy and best wishes

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  2. hang in there...you are in the best possible hands to resolve this....positive energy coming your way!

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  3. Thinking of you both and praying that the situation with the s/c bleed clears itself up soon. Best wishes!

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  4. Fingers and toes crossed. Praying for good news!!
    Best wishes, K&J

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  5. Sorry to hear the bleed is back : (
    Hoping with all my heart this resolves pronto.
    Sending warmest wishes to you both.

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  6. hang in there guys. rollercoaster is an understatement! just know everything is being done to take care of your baby and surro and all will be ok. thinking good thoughts for you guys!

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  7. Sending positive healing prayers to your surrogate that everything gets better and you resume a boring pregnancy. We are also crossing anything and everything!!

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  8. Yes positive thoughts! And yes, YAY for Bernadette, Princess and The Cheeks!

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  9. I am sure these little blips help to prepare us for parenthood. Sending prayers and good wishes to you and your surro mum

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  10. We are sending lots of luck and positive thoughts your way! Sometimes we all need to give dr google a break!!!

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  11. Oh no! I'm glad to see that you're keeping positive - hang in there!!!

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  12. Greetings neighbor , over here in Orlando . Been checking out your blog for a while now . Hope everything turns out good and that you get better news in a few days . Lots of prays to you and your partner that you have a healthy baby .

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  13. So sorry to read this guys, Fingers crossed, positive wishes to u all, hope surro mom and baby are out of hospital soon x

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